Life Video

By Mollie Mansfield


A 32 stone woman has opened up about how she is set to marry the man who encourages her to eat 10,000 calories a day.

Super size Jessica Wilson was searching for someone to become her ‘feeder’ when she met Eric Buddenhagen – a customer service manager who was interested in finding a ‘larger woman that he could overfeed’.

Meeting up for their first date in August 2019, Jessica, 26, and Eric, 34, ate pizza, watched movies and played video games together as she revealed to him that she wants to pile on a further 10 stone to reach her ‘goal weight’ of 42 stone (600lb).

Just one month later the happy couple were having regular ‘stuffing’ days – which see Jessica munch up to 10,000 calories a day with Eric’s encouragement.

Now, following Eric’s proposal in December  – when he hid a ring in an ice-cream sundae – the couple are hoping to achieve Jessica’s goal weight and get married this year to continue their feeding journey together.

Jessica, from West Chester, Pennsylvania, said: “We met on a website that is for people in the feeder community.

“I was initially looking for a feeder and someone who loves bigger women, but I never expected to find a fiancé.

“It was really love at first sight and initially we were more interested in getting to know each other than we were in me gaining weight, so we didn’t start our feeder and feedee relationship until roughly one month later.

“On a normal day I eat 5000 calories, but on a ‘stuffing’ day which we do twice a week, I can eat up to 10,000 calories.

“On a stuffing day Eric will take me to a buffet and will order me different foods throughout the day to see my stomach swell – and whilst I’m eating he’ll rub my belly and give me words of encouragement.

“We have completely different bodies – Eric is 6ft 1in and 190 pounds [13st 5lbs], meanwhile I’m 5ft 5in and 450 pounds [32st 1lb] – but he finds my belly sexy.

“Our goal is for me to reach 600lbs [42 stone 8 lbs] and we are hoping that, alongside getting married this year, that weight will be reached.”

Despite being obese, Jessica claims that she is in fact ‘healthy’ and takes measures to ensure she is not putting herself at risk.

She said: “I have been told I’m fat and unhealthy my entire life from friends and strangers.

“But every doctor I’ve ever visited is shocked about how healthy I truly am – no health issues at all.

“Blood pressure, cholesterol, and sugar all well within healthy ranges – I just happen to be fat.

“It does aggravate me that people always associate fat with unhealthy because that is not always the case.

“I walk everyday, I eat lots of fruits and veg and I take multi vitamins.”

Alongside having set days to show their love for the feeder community, Jessica admits that they include food in their everyday relationship and even monumental events.

She said: “I have a culinary arts degree so I absolutely love to cook and spend a lot of time in the kitchen making amazing meals for us both.

“We also like to incorporate food into our sex life from time to time as it includes a new level of intimacy and something we both love into that part of our life.

“But most recently, the main way we have used our love for being feeder and feedee is when Eric proposed to me in December.

“I was about to eat an ice-cream sundae when I saw this beautiful engagement ring hidden inside.

“It was a really special way for us to secure our love for each other as well as the community that we met each other in.”



BREAKFAST – Coffee, fruit and two bagels

LUNCH – Large pizza, chicken wings

DINNER – Large pasta dish

SNACKS – Fruit juice, fizzy drinks, energy drinks, chocolate, crisps



BREAKFAST – Coffee, fruit, two bagels

LUNCH – All you can eat lunch buffet

DINNER – Two large pizzas, eight chicken wings, stuffed cheese bread

SNACKS – Brownie, fizzy drinks, crisps, chips